Memorial of Saints Martha, Mary, and Lazarus

There are two gospel options for this day, such as having Martha ask Jesus some direct questions as he comes to her home. In both selections/settings, Martha is blunt. Even though in the history and legends of the church’s life, Mary is credited as the “quiet prayer model” or the one listening to Jesus, Martha offers us a way of praying that is quite realistic: telling it like it is!

We can be too nice and not share our real feelings with God: over the death of a loved one, or the family members who just are not helpful, or present in our lives. There is legitimate grievousness in some of our family histories. We are reminded from our first reading: consult God in the tent!

In the presence of prayer with God, we come to be with our merciful and gracious God at any time. We may ask the questions that need to be asked, clear the air, and get items off our chest. However, we are not to be “stiff-necked” about our relationship with God, nor others.

Once we ask the tough questions of God, we must listen to the answers and sometimes make some changes in our lives and our relationships with others. We must review the commandment of love (not just the 10 commandments) and see where we may love better and not be picayune. We are called to be open to the answers others are!

We may not feel close to God at times. However, as we hear again this day, Jesus visits our home, addresses our questions, and helps us cope with the answers. In God’s answers, we first hear the message of mercy and compassion. May we be the same witness to others, and we contemplate and spring into service.

Prayer

Lord God, help us balance our life with our worship, prayer, and service. Teach us to be mindful of your presence in others and help our attitude always to be witnesses of mercy and compassion. Let our faith shine brightly, as we bring hope and consolation to those most in need this day through Christ our Lord.